Allius Counselling and Family Mediation Services was incorporated in 2020, but Lurline Raposo, the founder and Clinical Director, has been in private practice since 2011, first in Calgary, AB, now here in Nanaimo, bc.
Our clinic name, “Allius,” comes from combining ALL, I, and US - reflecting our commitment to fostering connections. For the Allius team, it is all about people connecting with themselves in order to connect better with others. This is what we aim to support in our work with people, both young and old.
Our team would like to acknowledge that our clinic is located on the traditional lands of the Coast Salish People -- the Stz'uminus, Snuneymuxw, and Snaw-naw-as Nations. We recognize the importance of the lands we each call home. We do this to reaffirm our commitment and responsibility in improving relationships between nations and to improving our own understanding of local Indigenous peoples and their cultures.
MA RCC-ACS, RPT, BCRPT-S
Clinical Director/ Registered Clinical Counsellor & Play Therapy Supervisor
Lurline is an experienced professional with over 20 years of dedicated work in the field of children, youth, and family support. Her primary focus is assisting parents in effectively caring for their children. She holds several important credentials, including being a Registered Clinical Counsellor, Registered Play Therapist, Supervisor for Play Therapy, an Accredited Clinical Supervisor with BCACC and a Parenting Coordinator.
Throughout her career, Lurline has worked extensively with complex families both in British Columbia and Alberta Her expertise is recognized as she is a BC Hear the Child Roster Member and a Roster Member for BC Parenting Coordinators. She has completed her Family Mediation training and she serves as a Family Court Assessor. Lurline's specialized training encompasses various areas, such as family mediation, parenting coordination, needs of the child reporting, and parental capacity assessment.
Lurline's years of professional development bring a diverse range of counselling models into her approach, including attachment-based and neuroscience approaches, Accelerated Resolution Therapy, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, certain CBT focused methods, family systems, and more. By incorporating these different methodologies, she ensures a comprehensive and effective approach to many different challenges that our clients bring to the table.
A method that Lurline is passionate about is Sand Tray therapy for Adults. This practice supports emotional expression through the symbolistic features of the sand tray. It softly introduces adults to sharing feelings and emotions that may be difficult to discuss in a straightforward conversation. By using the sand tray and figures, tools, or even just your hands, there is an opportunity to create a space in front of you that symbolizes an aspect of your life.
MA RSW RCC BCRPT
Registered Social Worker, Clinical Counsellor & Play Therapist
Ladona has over twenty years of experience working with individuals, children, parents, and couples. Her work experiences have included employment as a child care provider, a child protection social worker, an adoption social worker, and an individual, couples and family counsellor. She is registered as a Social Worker in Alberta and British Columbia and as a Clinical Counsellor with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors. Ladona's collective experience has provided her with knowledge and experience related to navigating family court systems and she is skilled in providing support to families that are navigating child protection related court and other high conflict family matters.
With a family system, attachment, trauma, and culturally sensitive lens, Ladona approaches each individual and family with a deep appreciation for their unique circumstances. Drawing from her personal and professional background, she brings valuable insights to her counselling work with families and children, whether they are navigating divorce, blending families, or involved in adoption.
**Ladona is currently accepting new clients for online counselling sessions ONLY**
BA MA RCC
Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor
Allius Services is privileged to have Nicole as a Counselling Associate and a member of the Ahousaht First Nations. With an MA in Counselling Psychology and a BA in Child & Youth Care, specializing in Child Protection, Nicole brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to her role. For the past decade, she has dedicated herself to working with children, youth, and families who face trauma, conflict, and complex family situations. Her passion lies in supporting kids, families, and parents through their challenges. Nicole is also open to assisting individuals dealing with mood disorders, life transitions, and other family difficulties.
Nicole’s professional training and experience encompass a range of therapeutic modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), attachment-based approaches, trauma-informed practice, and Child and youth development. She has undergone advanced training in ACT specifically to enhance her counselling work with preteens and teens.
As a registered Clinical Counsellor with BCACC, Nicole’s long-term aspiration is to provide culturally-informed counselling experiences tailored to Indigenous individuals residing in the Nanaimo area. Her dedication to inclusivity and cultural sensitivity ensures that her clients receive support that aligns with their unique backgrounds and experiences.
BA MA RCC
Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor
Michelle completed her MA in Counselling Psychology and holds a degree in Child and Youth Care with almost a decade of valuable experience working supportively with children, youth, and adults. For the past four years, she has dedicated her efforts to a school environment, providing assistance to children and families with diverse and complex needs. Michelle possesses a deep understanding of both child development and attachment in parenting. She prioritizes a trauma-informed approach, emphasizing empathy and care to foster a robust therapeutic relationship with her clients. Through her work experience, Michelle has recognized the significance of respecting each individual’s unique life journey and delivering non-judgmental, compassionate care that facilitates healing.
Michelle’s therapeutic toolkit includes Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindful Self-Compassion, as well as play-based interventions such as Neuroscience and Satir in the Sandtray into her practice. She offers parent support from her training in both Gottman and Dan Siegel's models for supporting parents and children. Michelle also supports couples through Prepare-Enrich interventions. Michelle's commitment to ongoing professional development reflects her dedication to providing the highest quality of care to her clients.
BA, MS.Ed, RCC
Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor
Chaowen, a Registered Clinical Counsellor with BCACC, brings over 10 years of expertise supporting children, youth, adults, and families on their therapeutic journeys. With specialized training in therapeutic modalities like Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness Self-compassion, Complex Trauma, and Prepare/Enrich couple counseling, she offers diverse and effective interventions.
Educated in China, United States and France, Chaowen initiated her career in Human Resources at IBM, where she enjoyed assisting individuals in reaching their optimal selves. Driven by a profound desire to empower others further, she continued her studies at the University of Pennsylvania, earning a Master's Degree in Developmental Psychology in 2016.
Chaowen enjoys supporting her clients on challenges such as relationship issues, anxiety and low moods, life transitions and career change. In her warm and empathetic space, she ensures clients feel deeply understood and valued. Skilled in guiding individuals and couples to recognize and navigate their emotions and thoughts, she adeptly assists clients in reconciling with their inner critical voice, fostering an environment where they can build the confidence and strength necessary to pursue their desired paths in life.
In addition to her professional role as a counselor, she’s also a trainer for topics such as mindfulness self-compassion, communication at workplace and emotional intelligence for Microsoft, Amazon, and Twill Health. Chaowen offers therapy and training in both English and Mandarin.
In her leisure time, Chaowen finds inspiration in nature and engaging with people's stories, fascinated by the journeys that have led them to where they are today.
Mediator/Parent Support Associate
Elizabeth Stetar has worked a Social Worker with the Ministry of Children and Family Development with over a decade of experience in social services. Based in Nanaimo, British Columbia, she is passionate about supporting families and enhancing parenting capacities to improve the lives of her clients, their families and the broader community.
Elizabeth holds a Bachelor of Arts in Child and Youth Care and a Social Services Diploma from Vancouver Island University. Her career has been marked by her commitment to client satisfaction and her ability to foster strong relationships with individuals and community organizations.
Throughout her tenure with the Ministry of Children and Family Development, Elizabeth has held various roles, including Child Protection Social Worker and Acting Team Leader. In her most recent position, she served on the Intake, Assessment, and Response Under 12 and High-Risk Pregnancy Team, where she was responsible for conducting safety assessments and implementing care plans for at-risk children. Her experience includes making court applications for child protection and serving as a legal guardian for children in temporary care.
Elizabeth's expertise is further enhanced by her ongoing professional development, including training in Conflict Coaching, Motivational Interviewing, Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence Safety Planning, Problematic Substance Misuse and Indigenous cultural safety. Her commitment to continuous learning ensures that she remains at the forefront of best practices in working with families.
Outside of her professional endeavors, Elizabeth is a member of the Nanaimo Sport and Scent club where she spends time training and learning about her German Shepherd. Elizabeth also participates in a community-based dance fitness program called Jazzercise and you can also find her on the dance floor practicing her ballroom dance steps.
With a deep-rooted dedication to positive conflict resolution and a genuine desire to make a positive difference in the lives of families, Elizabeth Stetar continues to support parents in her community.
Therapy Dog in Training
Meet Petal! She is the newest addition to the Allius team. Bringing warmth and comfort, Petal plays a unique role in our clinic, helping clients to feel welcome and comforted. Her joyful presence and cuddly greetings boost morale and promote conversation in clients.
As a therapy dog in training, Petal is learning to interact with clients of all ages, providing non-judgmental companionship and a sense of security. Her gentle demeanor and intuitive nature make her a useful tool for sessions, especially ones involving children, youth, and families.
Petal is not just a pet; she is an integral part of our therapeutic process. Her interactions with clients help in reducing anxiety, improving mood, and enhancing the clients' overall experience. Animal-assisted therapy is a newer field in the mental health world, however resarch continues to prove just how helpful these furry faces can be when practicing counselling and mental health services.
While she is still in training, Petal's potential to positively impact the mental health and well-being of our clients is immense. We look forward to her continued growth, and enjoy the laughter and joy she brings to the clinic
To foster improved intra-personal and interpersonal connections that bring greater harmony to the individuals, families, organizations, and communities we serve.
Healing through better connections both inside and out.
We prioritize our professional learning while continuously striving to improve our practices and models to offer greater benefits to the clients we serve.
We believe “playfulness” is a cornerstone of healing and wellness. As such, clients of all ages are encouraged to incorporate humor, expressive arts, sand
tray, sport, music, dance, or other creative hobbies and pursuits into their therapeutic process.We know that sustained emotional availability can only be achieved through balance and self compassion. Clinicians and coaches must feel supported in
prioritizing self-care to be effective and inspired in their work long term.We appreciate the uniqueness of each person and family with whom we work while thoughtfully considering the influence culture, identity, history, and socio-political systems have on us.
The healing power of relationships is a foundational principle, and we seek to cultivate true connections with clients, each other, and our community.
We are humans first and counsellors second. As humans who face suffering throughout our lives, as clinicians, we can guide with this shared vulnerability.
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Allius Counselling and Family Mediation Services serves clients across Nanaimo, Parksville, Qualicum Beach, Ladysmith, Chemainus, Port Alberni, and the surrounding areas.
Allius Counselling and Family Mediation Services gratefully operates on the traditional lands of the Snaw-naw-as, Snuneymuxw, and Stz’uminus Nations. Our team acknowledges the necessity for reconciliation and redress for all First Nations People.