Child, Family & Relationship Counselling

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At Allius Counselling and Family Mediation Services, we recognize that life will not always be easy. Sometimes, we can use some support to work through challenging experiences. Our human struggle is universal. Seeking out counselling demonstrates a willingness to invest in yourself and your relationships with others.

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Registered Clinical Counsellors (RCC)

Registered Play Therapists

In-Person & Virtual Counselling Options

Adult, Child, Youth & Family-Focused Care

Counselling Support for Every Stage of Life

Real Support for Real Life

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

When your child melts down every day. When every conversation with your partner turns into the same fight. When trauma, anxiety, grief, or caregiving has left you running on empty—that’s not a personal failure. That’s being human.

At Allius, we do one thing differently: we just support your kids, we invest in you so your whole family can heal. Because when the adults in a home are steady, children naturally feel that predictability and they do better.

Whether you need individual counselling for you or your child, couples therapy, or family support, we’ll start where you are—no "shoulds", no judgment, just real help for real life.

Whatever brought you here, just know that you are in the right place.

Book a free consult to see if we’re the right fit.

If you’re not sure what type of counselling fits, we’ll help you choose the right starting point.

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Diversity


We appreciate the uniqueness of each person and family with whom we work while thoughtfully considering the influence culture, identity, history, and socio-political systems have on us.

Meaningful Connection


The healing power of relationships is a foundational principle, and we seek to cultivate true connections with clients, each other, and our community.

Our Counselling Services

Our services are designed to meet you where you are—whether you’re seeking support for your child, your relationship, your family, or yourself.

Child and youth counselling

Child & Youth Counselling

The eye-rolling, the withdrawal, the anger that seems to come from nowhere — these can be signs that something needs our attention. But how? Adolescents don't always want to talk — especially not to their parent or an adult they've just met. Our counsellors get that. We meet young people where they are, without pressure or judgment, using creative approaches that feel natural not clinical. Many teens who arrive reluctant, end up leaving wishing they'd come sooner

Child Counselling & Play Therapy

Play Therapy

You've noticed something is off — the meltdowns, the withdrawal, the worry behind their eyes. But when you ask, they just say 'fine.' Play therapy works because it doesn't ask children to find words they don't have yet. Through play, they begin to make sense of what they're carrying. And as the only play therapy practice in the area supervised by a Registered Play Therapist Supervisor, we bring the depth of expertise and specialization that your child deserves.

Individual & Adult Counselling

Individual Adult Counselling

You're managing. You're keeping it together to show up for everyone else. But underneath something feels off. Maybe it's stress, anger, grief, anxiety or just a sense that things could be better. Private, professional counselling gives you a  place to reflect on what's holding you back and start feeling like yourself again. Whether you're someone who talks about their feelings easily or someone who has never done this before, you are welcome here. Let us help you start feeling like yourself again.

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Couples & Relationship Counselling

Couples & Relationship Counselling

Whether you're trying to reconnect, working through a betrayal, or just not sure you still want the same things — couples counselling is an opportunity for both of you to check in and be honest. We help couples break the patterns like saying the same things and feeling the same hurt. No sides. No blame. Just a chance to figure out a plan for what's next, together.

Parenting & Family Counselling

Parenting & Family Counselling

Families are complicated — at every age and stage. Whether you're a parent struggling to reach your teenager, adult siblings navigating how to best care for an aging parent, or a blended family finding its footing, we help families have the conversations that matter most — constructively for greater clarity and understanding. We help families have the hard conversations no one wants to start.

Separation, Divorce & Co-Parenting Support

Separation, Divorce & Co-Parenting Counselling

Your relationship ended. Your family didn't. Most separated parents have one question above all others. Will my kids be alright? We guide parents to stay steady, communicate without conflict, and give children the reassurance they need to feel secure in both homes. Whether you choose to work together or individually, we offer strategies to reduce conflict, improve communication, and keep your children's wellbeing at the centre of every decision."

Trauma-Informed Counselling & ART Therapy

Some things don't fade with time. If a past experience keeps pulling you back — through flashbacks, anxiety, numbness, or a feeling you can't quite name — trauma therapy can help. We have counsellors trained in Trauma Therapies such as ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy), one of the most effective evidence-based approaches for processing trauma without having to discuss the content in detail. These are highly effective therapies and interventions that help the brain process painful experiences in ways that talking alone sometimes can't reach. Trauma-informed care provided by skilled practitioners at your pace."

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Our Approach at Allius Counselling Service

Our agency name, “Allius,” comes from combining ALL, I, and US -- reflecting our commitment to fostering connections. For the Allius team, it is all about people connecting with themselves to connect better with others. We aim to support it in our work with people, young and old.

Meet Our Team

Finding the right counsellor matters. Our team brings warmth, clinical skill, and ethical care to every session. We’ll help match you with a therapist who fits your goals, preferences, and needs.

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Our Approach at Allius Counselling Service
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Lurline Raposo

MA, RCC-ACS, CPT, BCRPT-S, BCPC

Clinical Director/ Registered Clinical Counsellor/ Play Therapy Supervisor/ Assoc Family Mediator & Parenting Coordinator


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CHAOWEN YUAN

MS.ED, RCC

Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor

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Michelle Mills

BA MA (In Progress)

Counselling Intern/ BCACC (student member)

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MICHELLE MILLS

MA, RCC

Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor

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Elizabeth Stetar

BA (Child & Youth)

Family Mediation /Parent Support Associate

Administrative Assistant

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Emma Mork

MSc, RCC

Counselling Associate/ Registered Clinical Counsellor

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Liz Baerg

BHS, MA (In PROGRESS)

Counselling Student Intern

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Michelle Mills

BA MA (In Progress)

Counselling Intern/ BCACC (student member)

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Michelle Mills

BA MA (In Progress)

Counselling Intern/ BCACC (student member)

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Authenticity


We are humans first and counsellors second. As humans who face suffering throughout our lives, as clinicians, we can guide with this shared vulnerability.

Counselling Services Across Vancouver Island

Allius Counselling Service supports clients across Vancouver Island, including:

Location

Nanaimo

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Duncan

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Surrounding communities

Allius Counselling Service provides counselling for children, youth, adults, couples, and families across Nanaimo, Ladysmith, Chemainus, Duncan, and surrounding Vancouver Island communities.

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